The Spill Babes

Welcome to Martini Monday where we’ll be dishing all of the things 20-something-year-old girls don’t want to hear, but have to.

We often forget that we are literal baby adults while in our 20s. We’re convinced we’re supposed to have it all figured out. Instead, we’re juggling rent payments, situationships, and pursuing a career we don’t hate, all while trying to remember to eat more than a few crackers for dinner.

Your 20s are like a messy cocktail made by someone who just started bartending 2 days prior but said they had experience on their resume. It’s full of being broke but trendy, independent but still calling mom to ask how to know when chicken is fully cooked, ambitious but drained 24/7. It’s the decade of making mistakes, learning that hangovers after 22 make you feel like you’re dying, and realizing that no one has it figured out even if they seem like they do. And that’s the post. This decade of life isn’t about perfection or knowing everything. It’s about learning, crying in a bar bathroom with a coworker, and still showing up to work like nothing happened. They’re messy, chaotic, and beautiful all at the same time.

Every Monday, I’ll be tackling a new 20-something topic. Think of this as a weekly reality check served on the rocks. We’ll dive into the chaotic things no one prepares you for in this decade of your life. From friendship breakups to unfulfilling jobs, nothing is off limits because the only way to survive your 20s without losing your shit is by spilling the unfiltered truths, the hard lessons, and the kind of advice you wish someone had told you sooner.

So grab your favorite drink and get ready to learn how to tackle your 20s.

Keep Spilling Babes, xx.